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šŖ¤ The Feedback Trap: How to protect your presentation confidence
The high-performance habit that will make you a better presenter.
After every presentation you deliver, ask yourself the following 3 questions:
On a scale of 1 to 10, how:
1. Confident did I feel? šĀ
2. Clear was my message? š”
3. Connected was my audience? ā”ļø
Let me explainā¦
Most presenters tend to take an all-or-nothing approach when reflecting on their presentationsā¦
Either it went well, or it didnāt āļø.
Given we are almost always our own toughest critics, more often than not, it will be the latter.
I call this The Feedback Trap.
Imagine for a minute that youāve been building a nice streak of presentations that have āgone well.ā You can feel your confidence improving with each one you deliver.
Then, out of nowhere, you have a shocker.
(And you will have a shockerā¦ we all will).
When that happens, your confidence will plummet and it will feel like youāre back to square one, even though youāre not.
This is why the stakes always feel so high - there is no middle ground.
The high-performance habit
A presentation only ever has three moving partsā¦ Thereās you (the presenter), the message youāre sharing and the audience youāre speaking to. More often than not, the most impactful presentations have:
A presenter that feels confident,
A message thatās clear, and
An audience that is connecting to what youāre saying.
By rating these elements on a scale of 1-10, not only are you making your feedback more specific (and easier to act upon), youāre protecting your confidence too.*
So get that new spreadsheet created, start the habit and watch your presentation confidence soar š.
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