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š The Recovery: How to win over an audience that has lost their faith in you
āI gained nothing from that session, but I trust the instructor learned something from it.ā
Youāve just delivered the first of a series of talks for a client. You arrive home to this stinging bit of feedback:
āI gained nothing from that session,
but I trust the instructor learned something from it.ā
The worst bit? Youāve got to face the same audience again next week.
What do you do?
Thatās the scenario Adam Grant found himself in while running a training session for military leaders.
What happened next was nothing short of a remarkable turnaround. His secret?
Turn your biggest critics into coaches.
Let me explainā¦
Despite what our LinkedIn profiles and websites might say, we are still human.
Sometimes, we get it (very) wrong!
Itās inevitable.
As Adam Grant found out to his peril.
In this 118 second clip, Adam shares not just how to recover from a presentation disaster, but a technique you can use to open a presentation to any intimidatingly successful audience⦠šæ.
Turn around your next talk disaster with these three stepsā¦
Turn your critics into coaches šŖ
Instead of asking for feedback, ask for advice.
āIf you were in my shoes, how would you approach it differently next time?ā
This small shift will reframe the relationship. Your critics will stop tearing you down and start helping you.
Warning, this is might hurt a little (and thatās ok). Listen and learn.Address the elephant in the room š
Adamās biggest mistake was trying to prove his expertise in a room of people who were far more experienced than him. It turns out that his inexperience was his unfair advantage.
So drop their guard:
Iām not here to teach you how to do your job; you can already do it better than I ever could.
But what I might be able to do is share a perspective on [topic] that helps you see things in a new light, or see them the way someone else might.
DONāT overhaul your content šæ
Or start second guessing yourself.
Recovery isnāt about reinventing everything. When youāve dropped your audienceās guard, the content will land.
Remember, they booked you for a reason.
In the world of thought leadership, there arenāt many places you can go when things donāt go to plan.
But MicDrop is one of them. Even our most āsuccessfulā members on paper:
Overthink
Over-prepare
Make mistakes
Forget their words
Second guess their fees etc.
Theyāve realised something that most havenātā¦
Figuring it all out alone is not only soul-destroying, itās slow.
Itās why elite sportspeople, musicians, writers, chess players, start-up founders train in teams.
To train together. To push each other. To hold each other to higher standards.
We have 7 slots remaining for our May intake. This is your last chance to book in a call.
Alex